Tuesday, October 1, 2019
This Boyââ¬â¢s Life by Tobias Wolff Essay
ii. ââ¬ËThis Boyââ¬â¢s Life is not only about hardship; it is also about determination and resourcefulness.ââ¬â¢ Discuss. Wolffââ¬â¢s memoir This Boyââ¬â¢s Life positions its readers to question the ability of Tobias and his mother to ââ¬Ëchange [their] luckââ¬â¢. In the midst of the post-war conservative backlash the pair are caged by societal norms that prevent them from acheiving their ââ¬Ëdreams of transformation.ââ¬â¢ Furthermore, Tobiasââ¬â¢ impracticality and sense of entitlement lead him to reject opportunities. Despite this, the memoir ends on an optimistic note. The reader closes the novel with the belief that the lessons the pair have learned throughout their journey may offer them a chance to improve their lives. The societal norms and expectations of the 1950ââ¬â¢s post-war America inhibit Tobias and his motherââ¬â¢s ability to transform their lives. Tobyââ¬â¢s sense of self worth is completely broken by his inability to meet the eraââ¬â¢s stereotypes of masculinity. The notion that he ââ¬Ëcould not break down [his] sense of being at fault to its componentsââ¬â¢ who he is reveals his inability to reconcile his identity with social expectations. Wolff juxtaposes Tobyââ¬â¢s ââ¬Ënaturalââ¬â¢ desire to ââ¬Ëseek statusââ¬â¢ with his complete and total discomfort with this own self. The contrast between the pacifistic and loving young boy who cries at a squirrelââ¬â¢s funeral and the gun-toting, rebellious teenager is a stark one. It reveals the overpowering need that Toby feels to conform. The memoir reveals that way in which Tobiasââ¬â¢ need to fit in prevents him from pursuing success. Rather than ââ¬Ëchange [his] luck, as he initially intended, Tobias camouflages himself in the safety of social norms and joins the army. His choice to return to the ââ¬Ëclear life of uniforms, ranks and weaponsââ¬â¢ cements his future. He decides to commit to leading an average life through conformity rather than stay true to his i dentity and pursue hisà dreams of ââ¬Ëstatusââ¬â¢ and wealth. Rosemary is similarly trapped by societal customs. Post-war America designates her one position in life: the role of a housewife and mother. This convention cages her, despite her attempts to escape it. The memoir emphasises the perpetual cycle of abuse that Rosemary and her son are subjected to. The opening line of the text, ââ¬ËOur car boiled over again.ââ¬â¢, demonstrates the repetitive and fruitless nature of Rosemaryââ¬â¢s attempts to transform her life. The inability of the 1950ââ¬â¢s women to escape from abuse is a prevalent element of the text. It reveals the way in which such situations were treated as normal and largely ignored. The ââ¬Ëstrangenessââ¬â¢ of the cycle of abuse and oppression ââ¬Ëover the years became normalââ¬â¢ to both Tobias and his mother. Eventually, despite her efforts to ââ¬Ërun from [men she] was afraid of, Rosemary is unable to escape the pervasive violence in her life. Both she and Tobias adopt the same view of the abuse as the rest of the society does. They opt to ignore it and turn a blind eye ââ¬Ëlanguidly [convincing themselves] that the strange noises came from cats.ââ¬â¢ Thus, societal expectations prevent Rosemary and Tobias from acheiving their ââ¬Ëdreams of transformation.ââ¬â¢ It is not social norms alone that hinder the pairââ¬â¢s progress in society. Tobyââ¬â¢s impractical and idealistic nature also damage his chances of success. He feels a sense of entitlement that prevents him from working hard to improve his circumstances. Toby manages to lie and manipulate his way into a good school, Hill, but does not put any effort to secure his future there. Instead, he considers it his ââ¬Ëdesire and [his] rightââ¬â¢ to be a part of this ââ¬Ëgreat world.ââ¬â¢ Even the prospect of being expelled due to failing classes does not spur him into action. He simply ââ¬Ëpray[s] like a moslemââ¬â¢ that he will be allowed to stay. In a similar manner, he also wastes opportunities to escape granted by Mr Bolger who offers him a refuge from Dwightââ¬â¢s abusive household. He is ââ¬Ëwelcomedââ¬â¢ by the family, yet he does nothi ng to repay their kindness. The troubles he causes them though his actions are forgivable, but his price and inability to take responsibility for his own wrongdoings destroy his chances of remaining in his adoptive home. Tobias refuses to apologise for siphoning fuel out of the neighboursââ¬â¢ trucks. This ââ¬Ëbrings shameââ¬â¢ on him and incites resentment from the Bolgers who have offered him a chance to change his future. Rather than take responsibility for his actions he ââ¬Ële[aves] a dummy in [his] place to look sorryâ⬠¦but [heà is] nowhere in the neighbourhood.ââ¬â¢ This facà §ade of regret ultimately prevents him from finding a new home. Wolffââ¬â¢s memoir, however, closes on an optimistic note. Toby is once again on the road, ââ¬Ëposed for flightââ¬â¢, and journeying toward a brighter future. The passage is reminiscent of the opening of the text. The difference, however, is that this time Tobias is equipped with the resilience, resourcefulness and determination that he has gained from his troubled childhood. The final lines of the memoir are full of hope as Tobias shouts ââ¬Ëhymnsââ¬â¢ at the ââ¬Ëtop of [his] lungsââ¬â¢ and drives along the road to an uncertain but optimistic future. This causes the reader to question whether his dreams of transformation have truly been ââ¬Ësavedââ¬â¢, or whether Toby is simply filled with the same naivety that he possessed at the beginning of the memoir. The pervasive idea of ââ¬Ëtransformationââ¬â¢ and ââ¬Ëchang[ing] luckââ¬â¢ in Wolffââ¬â¢s This Boyââ¬â¢s Life are hindered by multiple obstacles. Social norms and Tobyââ¬â¢s personal attributes prevent the pair from transforming their lives in the memoir. The reader is left with an overwhelming sense of optimism, however though which Tobias Wolff suggests that these ââ¬Ëdreamsââ¬â¢ may eventually be realised.
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